When a North Carolina family law judge has to make a decision about custody in a pending divorce, their focus is on what will be best for the children in the family. For most households, the best interests standard will lead to the court splitting custody between the...
Steps to escape an abusive marriage
The first step for someone experiencing abuse at the hands of a spouse is to seek help. Organizations such as the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence provide information and assistance, and spouses who are in danger of harm should call 911. Once they...
When should you fight for the house in your divorce?
If you and your spouse are divorcing, a major issue will likely be what to do with the house. Presumably, the two of you share ownership, so unless you want the court to decide its fate, you must reach accord on the matter. First and foremost, you should only expend...
Can your child pick which parent they want to live with in North Carolina?
You’re involved in a custody dispute with your ex-spouse, and you’re pretty sure that they’re playing games to try to “win” your child’s favor. You have always encouraged your child to be their best, and you have rules that you expect them to follow. Suddenly,...
How to have a workable relationship with your co-parent
As parents, while divorce will separate you in the eyes of the law, your lives will remain inextricably tied due to the children you have in common. As hard as divorce is for you, remember it is even harder on your kids. The better you and your co-parent cooperate,...